相处之道

在一起快五个月了，我们之间从来没有争吵。。。见面的机会不多，所以我们更懂得珍惜彼此相处的时间。。。两个人在一起，本来就要互相迁就。。。而我，一向来都不爱和人吵，所以一直以来都相安无事。。。

前几天看到一篇文章，说的是，当人吵架时，心的距离会被拉远。。。因为心的距离远了，所以要用喊的让对方听到。。。可是那么一喊，对方就更生气。。。越生气，就更大声的喊回；而越大声，心的距离就越远了。。。渐渐的，两个人的心，不再靠近，彼此之间就不再那么亲密了。。。

我个人觉得，这句话很有道理。。。一直以来，当我生气时，与其用愤怒的言语来表达，我选择沉默。。。当双方都冷静下来时，再坐下来好好的谈，但不是数落对方的不是，而是用婉转的方式让对方知道，是什么原因让自己生气。。。这样的方式，可以让对方了解问题发生的原因，而又把伤害的程度减到最低。。。也因为这样，心的距离就不会被拉远了。。。

两个人在一起，当然不可能每样事情都完全意见相同。。。所以，适当的相处之道，就是维系两个人的感情的必需品。。。你的相处之道，又是怎样的呢？

Forgiveness

I was dwelling in the past before

I can't let go of the past

I keep on blaming hating and crying

And until now I come to awake

I have decided to let it go

Because the happiness I own now

Make me come realise to it

There is no point to keep on holding on something that don't belong to me

I should let it go

Then only I can really feel happy

I let it go

I forgive you

And I should thanks to you

Because at least you brought me all those memories

At least I learned how to love now

At least I finally found the happiness that belong to me

I will cherish what I am having now

Because the past is no longer important

What is important now is what I am having

I think I should wish you are happy too

But we will still remain as stranger

Because it is better don't stir up anymore in the relationship

No one will like their bf or gf contact with their ex

I love him

The one that I believe to be my Mr. Right

More than everything I can say

Thank you and goodbye

I forgive you

I believe you will get your happiness too

^^

A little update of myself

Have been not blogging for more than one month
Became lazy to go online when I am at my home
Life is boring when jobless
I have been not working for three weeks
Looking for some other suitable job
While preparing for my online business
A lot of things have to do
Stock selection,contact suppliers,set up the webpage...
All I have to do it myself
Luckily I got my dear's and family's support
Temporarily still haven't finish all the stock selection
Still have to look for other suppliers for more variation
Also looking for job that have more flexible time so that I can manage my business
Dear's business also gonna start soon
By this december
He will be very very busy
Chances for us to meet getting less
But I can't complaint for it
Cause I have to support him no matter what
I won't be the one who pull him back
I'm gonna be the one who push him further
Tolerance and communication will be the main things for us to maintain our relationship
I am glad that dear still keep me in his mind no matter how busy he is
I think that is enough to compensate my sacrification all these while
What is bothering me now is
Should I work in a bank?Or a teacher in a private school?
I still have no idea which one more suitable since both the jobs are not bad
How I wish I don't have to work and stay at home do whatever I like everyday
With a lot of money let me to spend
^^

First time we officially meet...

Just came back from a dinner

Was having dinner together with dear and his family

This is actually a pre-celebration for dear's birthday

Had a very nice dinner together with dear and his family

I am actually a bit nervous before meeting with his family

But after I meet them I am totally feel relax cause they give me a friendly smile

Dear's parents are very friendly to me

I am glad that I can get along well with them

Chatted quite a lot with them actually

I also feel happy actually

Cause dear brought me to meet with his family

For me this is an acknowledgement

Acknowledgement of I am his girlfriend

I really feel grateful for this

Thanks dear for this acknowledgement

Cause this acknowledgement give me more confidence in this relationship

Because we seldom get to meet as you always busy with your work

And I always feel insecure worrying about the relationship

But now I am really relax and confidence

And thanks for the couple ring also

I hope you like the birthday present that I prepared for you

Happy Birthday dear~

^^

2 Months

Times flies

Tomorrow will be our 2 months

Although its only 2 months

But I feel that our love growing fast

We always talking about all sort of things

Our works

Our career

Our future

And all of these

We have already planned each other inside there

He introduced me to his families

I am so happy that so fast he recognized me to be the right one

He going to start his own business

So do me

Will have less time to meet each other

But I believe this will not be an obstacle in our love

Because trust are built between us

When we go through all these

We will end up with a happy ending

Dear~I love you~

^^

Convocation Ceremony

Today is my convocation ceremony

A big day for me as well as for my parents

Cause this is the first time in my house someone graduated from degree

I can tell my parents are happy and proud of me

Although a bit tiring but I still feel happy

I felt like want to cry actually when the last chinese song was sang by us together

But I end up sang it happily with my fellow friends

Finally I graduated le

Thanks to all my fellow friends and families

And also my dear although he can't attend today

Big hug to everyone else out there and please keep in touch

I do wish to meet you all again in future

Maybe a reunion dinner 3 years later?

^^

A Decision

I have made an decision

I had resigned from my current position

I decided to do something different

Although I am still not sure where will I get to

But I believe I should give it a try while I am still young

I don't want to regret that I never do that when I am old

No matter what happened in future

I know there are always some people who are supporting me

^^

三个字

时间过得好快

转眼间

我们在一起快三个星期了

虽然只有三个星期

但感觉像在一起三个月了

我们对彼此的了解越来越深

对彼此的感觉也越来越浓厚

即使天天见面

还是觉得不够

常常刚分开

下一秒就开始想念

简单的一句BB

让我甜入心底

我的心开始沦陷

他是我命中注定的他吗？

我不想去想

这一秒

我只想用心去爱

三个字

很简单的

拉近了我们的距离

In Love Again

Something good happened to me lately

I am in love again

Though me and him just get know to each other for very short time

But fate made us to meet each other

And love made us get together

Although there will still be a long tough road

I wish we can go through it with million of blesses

I can't help not to smile when I think of him

Cause he is such a sweet guy

I enjoy to being together with him

I think

This is what we call love

Update of My Lately Life

Have been long time did not update myself here

Started to work

Quite a challenging work for me

As I am new to everything

But satisfying although a bit tiring

I got to learn a lot of things

And this definitely will be useful for my future life

My colleagues are very good to me

Funny and crazy

And I got to know this person

He is good

I can't take my eyes off from him

I think

Some changes might happen in my life

Of course

All these are unpredictable

Will update soon

How have you all been?

It has been one week since I last see you all

I wonder how have you all been?

Sometimes I do really wonder am I am good friend?

I don't keep on contact with all my friends

Making our connnection getting lesser

But I do really care about all of you

Because you all are my friends

4 years of time spend together

Really leave a lot of memories for me

Sometimes I feel it is quite pity

As I did not spend much time with you all

Maybe is my characteristics

You all will never dare to play crazily with me

Although I don't mind it actually

If time can be reverse

I really wish I can play together with you all crazily

I wish to leave more memorable memories with you all

Friendships are hard to maintain

But no matter what

You all are always remembered

Thanks for being with me all these years

Without you all

I wouldn't be who I am today

Take care my friends

And I miss you all

要结束了吗？

就这样

我的最后一个学期结束了

剩下来的就只有考试了

考完试了

大家就要各自展翅高飞了吗？

即使我说过我不喜欢这里

可是这里也有着我不少的回忆

看着过去的种种

看着大家为了把回忆留住

不停的为彼此留下记忆

不停的一起合影

镶在照片里的回忆

是这辈子都很难遗忘的

会回来吗？

我不知道

也许若干年后

当我找到真正的幸福

能够真正的把过去的不愉快都放下

那么我就会回来了吧

time to say goodbye?

Time flies
It's really flies damn bloody fast
I just went back to TARC yesterday to collect my cert for pre-u
It feels like just yesterday I entered TARC
And today I already finish my degree at UTAR

Undeniable that I can't bear to leave
But at the same time I wish to end the sufferer-ness
Assignments and exams just so torturing for me
Maybe this kind of system do not suit me
I am more to be those "duck feeding" teaching system
Where we just do everything based on textbook
Maybe I just being too lazy

I can't bear to leave here
Because too many memories I had with my friends
But at the same time there are some unwanted memories here
Which was once make me wanted to leave here
Maybe I should thanks god that I never leave that time
Cause all the challenges all these while just make me grown up
I can say I am a better person now (maybe you don't think so but who care?!)

Throughout the years
There are always up and down
And what I feel very grateful is
I always have a bunch of friend be with me
Although they were not very helpful
Mostly cause I prefer to solve the problems myself
But the concerns they showed are just too much
And I feel grateful for that

It's just left around 1 month
After this what will we become like?
I don't know and I don't wish to know it yet
I just wish to enjoy the moments we still can be together
Works? Continue study? All these things just don't think of too far yet
I believe the present is more important
Because once its gone it will forever gone
While we still can work harder to change the future

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It's not yet time to say goodbye
Because I don't want to say goodbye

Relief

I think it's the time for me to relief

Finally it's over

Although it's not totally over

But consider as over I guess

At least I won't have to do assignment anymore

At least I won't have to prepare for midterm anymore

At least I moving forward more to graduation

At least I can finally not to worry about anything else except my final exam

I should start plan nicely my next step

Though I have already have a plan in my mind

But plan forever just plan

I have to make it come true

Now I have to try my best

Working hard to achieve success

I wish it won't get too far away from me

Welcome

This has been my new blog

As everyone start to blog in blogspot

My old blog I don't think I will update much there

This has been don't know the number what of my blog

I wish this can be last longer

I will try to blog about my life using photo

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